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Bridges In Life Planning

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When I wrote the Christmas story book last year, several book signings were sponsored.  It was such fun to meet neighbors and radio fans and friends who came out to support my journalistic endeavor.  I also got to speak to groups like the Rotary Club about the book and how it came about.  It reminded me of a talk given previously about bridges in life planning.  Here’s that story.

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Bridges In Life Planning-  #09

I had the privilege of talking with folks up at the Basye Library.  As part of their lecture series, we were talking about Bridges in Life Planning – all the decisions that need to be made, when we get to be 60 or 65 or 70. We talked about keeping control of your life, for as long as possible; appreciating the input of others but valuing your own alternatives as well.

There were many opinions about just how much say adult children should have, once parents are up in years.  There seemed to be general agreement that older folks have the right to decide how they want to spend their retirement income – as conservatively or as flamboyantly as they wish. 

We discussed leaving a legacy of love and integrity and values and how that can be much more important than a trust fund.

We talked about the kinds of people you want to be with and those you don’t want in your life, in later years, and making those decisions for yourself.

It was a spirited discussion. We all learned something about ourselves and each other.

Perhaps the best suggestion came from one man who pointed out, more than anything else, be sure you are still having fun!  Never stop having fun.

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Independence and control.  Americans like us are brought up on those principles.  We expect to keep them, even as we age.  The bridge to a place where we have less independence and control is therefore a hard one to traverse.  If you are the adult child, understand your parents’ wishes.  If you are the parents, understand that giving over control to someone you love is the easiest way to cross the bridge.  Trust, love and understanding.  They are each badly needed at this time.

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Filed Under: Advice and Encouragement, Memories and Aging Well Tagged With: life planning, senior citizens

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  1. Elsie Carr says

    January 20, 2019 at

    We are well past this point, however our plans have taken a major turn, as you well know. What now???? Only time will tell; life is at a standstill; getting through each day is a challenge. Often it’s not fun, wondering what tomorrow (or the next minute) will bring. Value each day…every minute…and love each other. Life plays tricks on us sometime… and it is not to our liking!

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  2. Annette Petrick says

    January 20, 2019 at

    Cathie – You can always cut to the core of the matter. The bridge to eternity is best planned for in advance as well. God bless us all.

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  3. Cathie Taylor says

    January 20, 2019 at

    Thank you for your message today! I believe the most important thing is to make sure where you are going to spend eternity. Proverbs 3:5-6

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