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Just how to start downsizing. That was the question. Most families realize that at one time or another, they’re going to need smaller space that will only accommodate less “stuff.” That time finally arrived for us and here’s how we went about it.
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The Art of Downsizing – #608
I gave away seven gaily painted nutcrackers and ten wooden toys. They were part of our Christmas decorations, as the children were growing up, and long after. I took them to the family Christmas party and invited each grandchild to choose some. The Christmas angels will be shared next year. It’s the start of our household downsizing phase. A very small start, but definitely a beginning.
What’s next? Bill’s ancient electronics are definitely on the table. For decades, they were treasures. In the age of computerized electronics, they are archaic. Then we’ll go on to the household items of which we have too many.
Friends warned that downsizing would not be easy. I envisioned delighting locals with a yard sale where they could find great stuff for pennies on the dollar. Then we considered how much work that is. Maybe it’s time to call in Junk Monster instead. You pay him to take it all away.
I have heard it said about material things – First you wish you had them, then you own them, then they become a burden. That’s where we are.
When Bill and I combined our households, five truckloads of furniture, books, domestics and glassware went to the church thrift shop. I hope they have room for more stuff, because I feel it going their way, as we shrink our belongings and organize our life for a simpler time.
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I am pleased to say that we resisted the temptation to rent storage lockers as a final resting place for our stuff. We have seen friends pay heavy money over time to secure belongings eventually tossed or sold at auction. Even worse, to will stuff to heirs who move it to their own stowage in the absurd cycle of life-long holding.
[Show #608]
And your cookbook collection is displayed so beautifully in your new kitchen.
Even as I was doing it, I knew it was the worst method ever! I’ve gone from 4,000 sq ft, to 2,800 sq ft, to 1,500 sq ft…all in 8 years. Downsizing to be sure, but not justifiable when I recapture the lost sq ft by renting mini-warehouses – 5 of them! – for an embarrassing amount of money. So, did I truly downsize? Nah, not even close. Downsizing means let it go…let it go.. let it go. In 2021, I’ll retry my efforts…again.
Sounds like it might be a mantra for 2021 – LET IT GO!!!
Recently helped a friend who was clearing out his mother’s home. Hundreds of pie tins and cake pans! She was the baker par excellence for every church and community function. Sooo much to donate and toss… Made me painfully aware that my time is coming. I dread parting with my cookbook collection. Only a very few other things will get “passed down.” I have already started the weeding process but, like you, realize it will not be quick or easy. A reminder to those of our generation: our “kids” don’t want our crystal, silver and good china… too much work. Their lifestyle is not like ours was. I often say, “my sons live out of a backpack – minimalists!”
I’ve been downsizing a bit and using Facebook Marketplace to sell items. I’ve had pretty good luck. More to go though.
Happy 2021!
Diane