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Emotional planning

Emotional planning
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New Year’s Eve. Will that be party time at your house?  What’s it like when your family gets together? All sweetness and light?  Or are there factors or people who may use the function to retread old grudges or regrets?  Anyone who may tip the bottle a bit and present My Hyde instead of Dr. Jekyll? 

If your family is not exactly The Brady Bunch, you may do well to have ideas for deescalating friction.  

Emotional Planning

Planning a big party or event? Be sure to plan for the emotional aspects as carefully as you plan the menu. If you are the host, be sure not to spread yourself too thin. Set realistic limits, aim for comfort, not perfection. Don’t let yourself get over tired so that you get cranky.

With large groups, keep everyone active rather than sitting around waiting for an argument to erupt. Play games, get outside, throw a ball around. Everyone will be less sluggish, which will put them in a better mood.

Too much togetherness can be smothering. Get away now and then. Even if it is to close your eyes and lay down for five minutes.

Humor is also a great tool for reducing stress and bringing people closer. If things start to get tense, make a joke of it. Or recall amusing incidents that bring on smiles. People won’t remember what was on your menu, but they will remember how you made them feel. 

P.S.  As the year draws to a close, there is so much to ponder. Our world has been changing under our feet, ready or not. It’s been easy, this year, to get lost and confused.  At this time, remember how many times you showed courage in the last year. How often you went out of your way for others.  Count your good steps, take credit for them and go forward doing the best you can, in your own little world.  It’s what’s expected of you.  Happy New Year.

[Show #170]

Filed Under: Family, Friendship, Inspiration/Life Lessons, Podcast Episodes Tagged With: Family, friends, New Year's, party planning

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  1. Kathryn Haueisen says

    January 2, 2022 at

    I always enjoy you take on things- a good mix of reality and upbeat, positive responses. Today’s message was especially pertinent and meaningful to me. Keep up the good words.

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    • Annette Petrick says

      January 4, 2022 at

      Glad it gave you some new considerations, Kathryn. The world need all the good words that either or both of us can provide.

      Reply
  2. Elizabeth H. Cottrell says

    December 26, 2021 at

    Annette, I love your beautiful take on life and your positive mindset, even though you fully recognize the challenges we all face. I always feel uplifted after reading your reflections.

    Reply
    • Annette Petrick says

      January 4, 2022 at

      As do I after reading the lyrical thoughts that pour lovingly onto the pages of your heartspoken.

      Reply
  3. Joan says

    December 26, 2021 at

    Tough year with family illness due to covid snd death and hospital stays
    Yet the smiles of children makes it worth forging ahead
    Small gatherings instead of llarger ones are special too
    Looking forward to 2022

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    • Annette Petrick says

      December 26, 2021 at

      I join you with thoughts of hope and positivity, Joan. We can make a difference.

      Reply

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