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Just Like You

Just Like You
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The song was from the If You’re Going Through Hell album by country singer, Rodney Atkins. It was titled Watching You and it was released in 2006.  It’s the tearjerker behind this story.

Just Like You  

There’s a country song I love. A father is singing about his young son who lets loose with a profanity. “Where did you learn to speak like that?” the father demands. “From you daddy,” the child responds. “I wanna be just like you.”

Later in the song, the father is redeemed when he hears his son speak original words to God and asks where he learned to pray like that. “From you daddy”, the child responds. “I wanna be just like you.”

How often do we wonder where one of our children gets an attitude, or a prejudice, or passion? Often, we just need to look in the mirror to find the source. The things that you say and do everyday influence everyone around you; for the good, and for the bad.

So, when you decide what kind of stance to take, think twice about what you say. The position you take may well become the same one your children will carry into the next generation. You may never hear your child say, “Mommy, I want to be just like you.” But how often has it occurred to you, “Oh my God, I have become my mother” or “I have become my father.”

When that thought occurs to your child, make sure it makes them smile, not frown. And when your children become you, make sure they can be proud of the person they’ve become. 

P.S.   

In 2021, there is more need than ever for parents to display the traits you want offspring to emulate. Are you standing up against bullying?  Have you explained ways to channel anger? Have you practiced conversations that respect all points of view? Kids are on a new playing field these days that may require patient consideration and discussion.  Be sure your children can find that at home.

[Show #485]

Filed Under: Family and Friendship, Love and Kindness Tagged With: children, Family, kindness, parenting

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  1. Elizabeth Herbert Cottrell says

    February 7, 2021 at

    Certainly, our children and grandchildren learn by watching us. But consider that others in our sphere of influence are watching us too. What are they learning? Is it worth emulating? Another great episode, Annette.

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    • Annette Petrick says

      February 8, 2021 at

      True. Somewhere today, someone may be telling their grandchild something you said to them way back when. Words count.

      Reply
  2. Rich Church says

    February 7, 2021 at

    Another timely and important message! I love the new look and feel of the website. It is slicker and more colorful and easier to navigate. Nice job and keep up the good work.
    PS When I clicked in the name box, my entire comment was printed. I will try again from here.
    Same thing again, so needs cleaning up.

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    • Annette Petrick says

      February 8, 2021 at

      Thanks for the kind words, Rich. Really appreciate comments on our new look. We’ve been working on t for a while, to get just the right tone. We’ll get right on the fix you mentioned.

      Reply

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