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When the pandemic and lock-down surged forward, many proud Americans found themselves in a compromising position. Their situation called for behavior and emotions unknown to them.
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More Need Help – #294
Recent years have brought new struggles to families here. People who never before needed help, suddenly cannot be as independent as before. They may reach out to relatives to share living quarters. They may not be able to make ends meet. They may need the help of food stamps or food banks, or even shelters.
When you’re too proud to show you need help, things may only continue to get worse. You can find yourself reeling from the effects on you and your family. It takes a tremendous amount of strength and will to pull through times like this.
Perhaps the most courage of all is being willing to ask for help. When you’re not used to needing help, it’s not easy to speak up.
If you are in this position, I urge you to work up the courage. Reach out and let someone know what you need. It may not be a lot but with some help you may be able to make it through with a lot less pain.
There are people who can help you get through the official system. There are people who will help you privately, quietly, with compassion. From churches, community groups, neighbors, sponsors, you may be surprised to find out how many ways people can and will help.
But it can only happen if they know you need help. It’s okay. When you’re back on your feet you can help others again. For all the caring you’ve done in the past, let someone help you now.
P.S.
Seniors found generous new help. Those sheltering in place at home were concerned about exposure to the virus by grocery shopping or fast food pick up. Dozens of sources sprung up to provide food delivery to the front porch. All they had to know was who needed it.
[Show #294]
So very true
I am grateful for those who anticipated I wouldn’t ask and quietly came forward
My little shop
Had been my social and happiness spot and when abruptly closed shattered my dreams and passion
Time moves forward with new challenges and unexpected gifts
Your shop is also the happy place for so many. Your gracious hospitality is the toast of Edinburgh. Hope your weekend sale went well.
So many people have the mindset that asking for help is a weakness. I don’t believe it though. The podcast was current, and nudges those who may not ask, to ask. For me helping is rewarding. Since my husband’s health has declined, I have had to ask for help. I’ve yet to get a “no”. The more often I seek help, the easier it gets to do it. Have a great day!! Kathy
It’s obvious that you re a giver as well as a receiver, Kathy. May you know the gratitude you gather.
I love this lesson, and it is one we need to learn any time, not just during the pandemic. Givers need Receivers and Receivers need Givers. And at different points in our lives, we can be either one.
Elizabeth – At a drastic time in my life, a fellow Rotarian asked how I was and everything came tumbling out. She ushered me into a private place and listened. She then turned to a few guys in the Club who selflessly stepped forward and saved the day. I NEVER would have asked for that help. So it’s also valuable to be the go-between to make something happen. So grateful to those who do – like you.