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It seemed to be taking place all around me.  Kids moving back with their parents . . . mother carried off to a nursing home . . . a widow heading west . . . a bachelor heading east. . . a classmate moving to Ireland.  . . someone asking about moving in here.  Lives used to be all neat and tidy – and suddenly everything is changing. It motivated me to write this story.

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Change –  #345

We have several friends who have had to change their living location in the last year.  It’s been such an experience, to see how they acclimated to their new environment.

One elderly gentleman decided his home on the mountain was just too much responsibility.  He listed out the tasks that needed to be done to live in his house. He decided that most of them, he no longer enjoyed doing.       

He carefully reviewed assisted living facilities, went to visit several, decided on one and moved in.  He now lives in the nursing home portion, quiet and content. He can do for himself all that his efficient new setting requires.

He still enjoys all the daily activities he liked, such as dining with friends, reading the newspaper, playing cards and watching sports. He says he brought the best of his world with him and left behind the things he had outgrown.      

Another friend retired and moved across the country to be near her only daughter.  But daughter has a career and a life and little time to spend with mom.  My friend wound up moving back and even getting her old job back.  Retirement did not suit her nearly as much as a busy workday.

She prospered in a setting where she had respect and appreciation.          

I’ve learned from these friends – not to be afraid to change things…

And not to be afraid to go back, if it doesn’t work out.

P.S.  

I started analyzing all the options open for when it’s my turn to change. Guess what?  Can’t do it.  Somehow I have not found the crystal ball that tells me what will be needed by me or my loved ones or those around me.  I can’t begin to guess what it will cost and whether there will be bingo or pot parties or midnight skinny dipping.  So, just like the rest of us, I will wait and try to make good decisions while the universe determines my future.  I just hope it does it with panache.

[Show #345]

Filed Under: Advice and Encouragement, Memories and Aging Well Tagged With: moving, retirement

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