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Beautiful Old Faces

Beautiful Old Faces
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I was browsing through old family photos.  There was a close-up of a very old woman, taken back in the 40s. I was mesmerized by her.  Wrinkled face spoke of her advanced age. Yet the light in her eyes and her warm smile exuded something I sought to define. Then it occurred to me. It was beauty.

Beautiful Old Faces 

I love to be in the company of beautiful people. And one of the most beautiful types of face is an old one. The corrugated face has character. As you age, laughter etches grooves on your face.  Imagine how much laughter it took to create that beautiful old face. That face may reflect a heart that has been broken – more than once.

But broken hearts are what give us strength and understanding and compassion. I tease my husband by tracing the laugh lines around his eyes. I claim to be the cause of the three on the left. Happy to take responsibility for those creases of love and laughter.

I love to be in the company of beautiful old people who know how to enjoy themselves, every single day. Who still know how to laugh – at your jokes and their jokes and at themselves.   

And if they repeat those jokes often, be kind and listen in.  Be amused and react as expected.  You’ll make their day.

These older people are precious.  They won’t be here forever. But while they are, help them not to waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will be.  Seek out their company.  Let them know they are beautiful. Learn from the stories they tell.  Enjoy them. 

And realize that one day, you will be them.

P.S.   You want to see an old person beam?  Put a grandbaby in her arms.  Have him nuzzled by a puppy.  Have a child present them with a handmade drawing. Listen to old music with them.  Listen to their stories.  Say a prayer with them. That light that beams from within brings beauty back into a tired old face as it shines with remembrance and joy.

[Show #651]

Filed Under: Advice and Encouragement, Love and Kindness, Memories and Aging Well Tagged With: aging, laughter, senior citizens, stories

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