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Mom’s Butterfly

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In my family, my late mother’s “signature” is a butterfly.  We believe it shows her presence among us – like when that beautiful creature flew past my mom’s great-granddaughter, just as she was saying her wedding vows.  Here’s another story of her presence.

Mom’s Butterfly 

I watched a beautiful butterfly the other day and felt that my mother was so close. She loved butterflies, especially Monarchs. I can’t help but feel her presence when I see one. Have you ever had that experience?

My mom meant so much to me that in traumatic situations, I can’t keep from talking to her, even though she is no longer here, and trying to hear what her advice would be.

One time, I received a call that my pregnant daughter had been rushed to the hospital. She and the baby were both in distress.

I had a six-hour drive to where she was. All during the drive I listened so hard to hear my mom. Why wasn’t I remembering what she would say to comfort me, guide me, help me along this painful drive?

I got to the hospital well after dark. As I ran to the lobby door, a Monarch butterfly flew by.

“Oh mom,” I cried, “all this time I was wanting you, you were already here, watching over your granddaughter and great-granddaughter.”

I looked again – but the beautiful butterfly was gone.

Then it occurred to me – When is the last time you’ve seen a butterfly at night? They’re not out at night. 

But mothers are.  Mothers are wherever you need them; whyever you cry out to them.  They come on the wings of butterflies – or is it – on the wings of love.

P.S.   

If anything was ever connected to magic moments, it is mothers.  Leaving this world does not seem to change our connection with the one who gave us birth.  Whether you hear yourself sounding like your mother, remember her fondly, or laugh out loud as you recall adventures together, your mom is yours, forever.

[Show #330]

Filed Under: Family, Legacy, Podcast Episodes Tagged With: remembering

Creating Memories

Creating Memories
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My daughters and I were laughing about a party held at our big New Jersey home decades ago, when they were still small.  It was hilarious to hear their take on the party from their aspect, as a young child on the side-lines.

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Creating Memories – #603

Recently, I told you about the surprise birthday party in my honor.  It lasted one afternoon.  But the aftermath is what I want to share with you.  Because that event had a life of its own.  It was like seeing a movie that keeps repeating in your head.

For weeks, I went to sleep remembering a vignette or a conversation or a hug shared that afternoon.  I knew the memories of that day would be with me forever. 

But the good part is that it gets to play over and over WITH OTHER PEOPLE as well. Every time I get together with a friend who was there, or a relative who helped plan or run the event, the warm rush of affection happens all over again.  I hear what THEY took away; entirely different from what I did.

So the gift provided by the folks who planned and attended that surprise party did NOT fill just one afternoon.  It became another story that is part of my life.  How precious! 

So I have a suggestion for you.  If you are invited to a surprise party . . . or any such event . . . GO!  Make the time, go out of your way to get there.  Does it matter if you are in the crowd?  Yes, it does. 

You are giving the gift of time and sharing, to someone you care for, who no doubt loves you in return.  The scope of the gift you provide by your attendance is immeasurable.  It will pleasure the person honored with happy memories and provide stories to tell, for years to come. Don’t miss it.  Be there.

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We celebrated my mom’s 75th birthday some 20 years ago, and family members are still posting photos, remembering the laughs and memories it conjured up.  We plan to put those photos together into a book.  Of course, we have planned that, for twenty years now.

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Filed Under: Friendship, Podcast Episodes, Remembering Tagged With: remembering, surprise party

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