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Haves and Have Nots

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Backstory  

In these months of constantly present hidden threat, optimism tends to wane, along with thankfulness.  Reflecting on our state reminded me of an earlier time, when Americans were left without jobs and without income.  This story is about that time for my family and what we learned.

Haves and Have Nots  

“Be thankful for what you have, not for what you don’t have.” I first heard that mantra back in the 70’s. Be thankful for what you have, not for what you don’t have.

At the time, we were living in our first house. It was a nice three-bedroom split level in a residential development.  But somehow after a few years, the house seemed small.  We needed more garage space, more bedrooms. I wanted bigger, better.

Then the recession hit. Security became very wobbly. The things I had assumed I deserved and would always be mine were being challenged. I might not have a job. My husband might not. Oh boy, how I wish I had those hundreds of dollars we spent on last year’s vacation.

Suddenly I looked around my beautiful, perfect, plentiful home and said, “Please God – Just let us keep up the payments. Let us keep this roof over the heads of our children.”

Well, we did survive. The whole country did. Things turned around and we did eventually move on. But I never forgot the lesson I learned then. It may help you too.

Be thankful for what you have, not for what you don’t have.

P.S.   

While sheltering in place during the pandemic, we have been thankful for thoughtful outreach, small and large. A team of walkers have a favorite route through our community. We sometimes glimpse them at wave distance.  One day as they jogged through, they left candy and hand-written notes of blessing on porches.  Gestures like that, especially from strangers, really make a difference. They remind us of the joy, friendship and kindness waiting on the other side.

[Show #108]

Filed Under: Encouragement, Inspiration/Life Lessons, Podcast Episodes, Remembering Tagged With: blessings, gratitude, life lessons, thankful

Be Thankful

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Backstory  

This is a real-life story from fifty years ago.  It was a seminal moment in how I looked at things from then on.  See if you can relate to what happened.

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Be Thankful –  #191

“Be thankful for what you have, not for what you don’t have.” I first heard that mantra back in the 70’s. Be thankful for what you have, not for what you don’t have.

At the time, we were living in our first house. It was a nice 3-bedroom split level in a residential development. But somehow, after a few years, the house seemed small. We needed more garage space, more bedrooms. I wanted bigger, better.

Then the recession hit. Security became very wobbly. The things I had assumed I deserved and would always be mine were being challenged. I might not have a job; my husband might not. Oh boy, how I wish I had those hundreds of dollars we spent on last year’s vacation.

Suddenly I looked around my beautiful, perfect, plentiful home and said, “Please God, just let us keep up the payments. Let us keep this roof over the heads of our children.”

Well, we did survive. The whole country did. Things turned around and we did eventually move on. But I never forgot the lesson I learned then. It may help you too.

Be thankful for what you have, not for what you don’t have.

P.S.   

 In this time of pandemic lock-down, you might hear whining about the claustrophobic aspects of sheltering at home.  Take another look.  There are places where shelter is a tent or a ripple of tin. If yours is better than that, you know what to do.  

[Show #634]

Filed Under: Advice, Encouragement, Inspiration/Life Lessons, Podcast Episodes Tagged With: life lessons, thankful

Gratitude

Gratitude
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Backstory  

Every Thanksgiving, I’m asked to give the prayer before the meal to be enjoyed by our extended family.  I was making notes for this year, thinking of thanks for health, family, love.  But actually, our gratitude deserves to reach out to many more basic precious gifts.  This story is about them.

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Gratitude –  #427

There’s been a lot of talk lately, it seems, about gratitude.  There are gratitude journals and gratitude blogs and gratitude books – including a few to teach you how to be grateful. One item I read said that gratitude is your Magic Wand.

“Whatever you point gratitude at increases, expands and escalates.”  But, the author warns, “You have to pick up that magic wand and use it.”

Being grateful applies, no matter who you are, no matter where life has taken you, no matter what your circumstances or your desires.

Wherever you are at this moment, is where you are meant to be. And there are things for which you can and should be grateful.

It may be the lessons you are learning, if things are tight financially. It may be the good health of your children or your parents. It may be your ability to put food on the table and take a shower when you need one and drink fresh water that won’t make you sick.

The only error would be to stop giving thanks – to the people who bring your joy or the deity who gives you contentment and peace.

Take time every day to write in your gratitude journal, even if it’s just a mental one.  Think of all the things for which you are thankful and then go do something for someone else, for which they will be thankful. 

P.S.   

That last task – doing something for which someone else will be thankful – That’s really a fun thing.  People don’t expect an act of charity or kindness.  They may be startled.  Enjoy their response – and encourage them to pay it forward.

[Show #427]

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Filed Under: Podcast Episodes Tagged With: gratitude, kindness, thankful

Gratitude

Thanksgiving
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There’s been a lot of talk lately, it seems, about gratitude. There are gratitude journals and gratitude blogs and gratitude books – including a few to teach you how to be grateful.

One item I read said that gratitude is your Magic Wand. “Whatever you point gratitude at increases, expands and escalates.”  But, the author warns, “You have to pick up that magic wand and use it.”

Being grateful applies, no matter who you are, no matter where life has taken you, no matter what your circumstances or your desires; wherever you are at this moment, is where you are meant to be.

And there are things for which you can and should be grateful.  It may be the lessons you are learning, if things are tight financially. It may be the good health of your children or your parents. It may be your ability to put food on the table and take a shower when you need one and drink fresh water that won’t make you sick.

The only error would be to stop giving thanks – to the people who bring your joy or the Deity who gives you contentment and peace.

Take time every day to write in your gratitude journal, even if it’s just a mental one.  Think of all the things for which you are thankful and then go do something for someone else, for which they will be thankful.

[Show #427]

Filed Under: Encouragement, Lifestyle, Podcast Episodes Tagged With: grateful, gratitude, thankful

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